Is It harder for Women in the Music world?

Hi everyone, it’s #MondayMusic&Me. This time, I’ll be focusing on women and challenges in the music industry.

Let’s start off with a quick little exercise. On a piece of paper, off the top of your head (don’t think too much about it), list ten great songwriters or musicians that you know. Now look at the list.How many women do you have on it? Maybe one, two or three?

If you ever had the chance to witness a music festival or concert or even see the lineup of artistes performing, the ratio of female to male performers is usually low.

It can be arguably said that male artistes are usually regarded more seriously than their female contemporaries. Just head on over to YouTube and have a look at the comments that trail the video of  a female artiste.  A lot of times, the comments relate to the artiste’s physical appearance -what she’s wearing, her physique, her hair, her shoes and on and on –  rather than her talent/performance.

Now, I’m a female singer/songwriter, so it’s natural that I am concerned about this issue. There are those with no real talent, but a lot of ‘show’. They have adopted the strategy that sex sells, and yes, sex does sell, but not everyone is buying, and eventually, even those who buy will still turn around and crave real music from those who can give it even if they aren’t baring it all.

When women are portrayed or viewed as sex symbols, it becomes harder to give any credence or regards to their ability to have a music career. So we have music producers and label owners, who approach talented female musicians, holding the promise of a brighter career in music in one hand, and on the other, the condition to ‘sleep’ their  way to that career.

When you decide to become an Indie artiste, you are faced with another set of challenges. This is the category I fall into. You’re on a never-ending quest to abate  the self-doubt and absence of  a steady income, and like a Reverend  who has answered his calling, you cannot turn back or quit.

In my experience, I have realized that it takes confidence and courage to act upon your vision; to go out of your comfort zone into the world for everyone to see. Without finances, and necessary moral support, it is even harder, but with the grace of God and conviction, your passion for your music, and your determination, you will keep going.

In addition to all this, when I added being a mom to the mix of being a woman and being an Indie artist, I came up with the term, ‘Momusician’.

My role as a Momusician puts me at crossroads every waking hour of the day. Imagine writing a song at one point, then doing school runs, on the other hand, battling to be present at their school activities, planning  my ministrations and performances, all the while also making sure that I’m meeting their needs – physical, emotional, spiritual, psychological,educational and everything else in-between.

Right from their birth, my boys were always going around with me, save for a few instances where they had to be babysat; and now that they are nearing teenagehood, I’m up for another phase to navigate them through. All glory to God for every step of the journey!

I’d say that in all honesty, it is harder for women/mothers to break into and maintain their stay in the music world. But if  women who are in this music industry can begin to understand  and realize that their femininity surpasses their physical assets, their sojourn as musicians will not be short-lived.

I would like to hear from you. Can you share some of the challenges  that you think are confronting the female artiste?



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2 Comments Add yours

  1. bisimodupe1975 says:

    From what i have seen and gathered some female artist end up marrying their manager and sometimes there is a cross fire between family life, career and the big one- “money”. Sadly some relationship break down. I think generally it is tough combining your skills and mom life or should i say family life. A number of times i get upset when i have to juggle between running errands for my family with my career and especially the sitting down to write part….It’s crazy trying to balance it all sometimes…frustrating but o well i guess that’s what makes women a “strong breed”. Great piece …keep singing and follow your dreams.


    1. kingsoracle says:

      That is so true, in some cases,like mine. My husband is my manager,and sometimes I feel like someone else can do a better job but the danger is that that someone else may not understand the dynamics with which we operate as a ministry. it is really overwhelming most times when you juggle all these things and still want to find time for yourself,apart from the roles. But His grace is always sufficient when we run to him. Thanks for your kind words.


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